<\/span>Someone New by Anne Sibley O\u2019Brien<\/span><\/h2>\n![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.scrively.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Someone-New-by-Anne-Sibley-OBrien.avif\")
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Sometimes your child wants to include somebody but doesn\u2019t know how. What if they say the wrong thing? What if the other child doesn\u2019t understand? This thoughtful picture book makes space for that awkward first step without allowing uncertainty to become an excuse for doing nothing.<\/p>\n
It is especially useful for children whose classrooms welcome students from different countries, languages, and experiences.<\/p>\n
What kids notice:<\/strong> Children may recognize the nervousness of approaching someone who seems different, as well as the relief that comes when a shared activity breaks the ice.<\/p>\nStory snapshot:<\/strong> Jesse, Jason, and Emma each try to connect with a new classmate: Maria, Jin, and Fatimah. Soccer, stories, and art become bridges when words alone are difficult.<\/p>\nWhy this book helps:<\/strong> Instead of expecting a perfect introduction, it encourages your child to notice what another person enjoys and begin there. Friendship can start with a ball, a picture, or a place beside you.<\/p>\n<\/span>The Name Jar by Yangsook Choi<\/span><\/h2>\n![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.scrively.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/The-Name-Jar-by-Yangsook-Choi-231x300.webp\")
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A name may be the first gift of welcome your child can offer. Learning to say it correctly shows someone that their identity is worth the effort. That simple idea becomes beautifully personal in this story of a girl trying to find her place.<\/p>\n
It also opens a useful conversation about the difference between helping someone belong and expecting them to change in order to fit in.<\/p>\n
What kids notice:<\/strong> Children often understand immediately how uncomfortable it would feel if classmates treated their own name as strange or inconvenient.<\/p>\nStory snapshot:<\/strong> After moving from Korea, Unhei worries that classmates will struggle with her name. She considers choosing an American name from a jar, but a new friendship helps her appreciate the name she already has.<\/p>\nWhy this book helps:<\/strong> It gives your child an everyday way to practice respect: ask for a name, listen carefully, and try again when necessary. Welcoming means making space for someone as they are.<\/p>\n<\/span>I\u2019m New Here by Anne Sibley O\u2019Brien<\/span><\/h2>\n![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.scrively.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Im-New-Here-by-Anne-Sibley-OBrien.avif\")
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Now turn the experience around. What does a classroom feel like when you are the person trying to understand its unfamiliar sounds and routines? This companion book invites your child to imagine arriving somewhere without the comforting shortcuts of a shared language.<\/p>\n
Reading both of O\u2019Brien\u2019s books together creates a particularly rich conversation: one helps children imagine offering a welcome; the other helps them understand why it matters.<\/p>\n
What kids notice:<\/strong> The new students have interests, talents, and memories that existed long before they arrived. Being new does not mean having nothing to contribute.<\/p>\nStory snapshot:<\/strong> Maria comes from Guatemala, Jin from South Korea, and Fatimah from Somalia. Each encounters different challenges at an American school and gradually finds connection with classmates and teachers.<\/p>\nWhy this book helps:<\/strong> It invites your child to replace assumptions with curiosity. A classmate who is quiet in English might have wonderful stories to tell in another language.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n
<\/span>The Invisible Boy by Trudy Ludwig, illustrated by Patrice Barton<\/span><\/h2>\n![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.scrively.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/invisible-boy-243x300.webp\")
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Not every child who needs a welcome has just moved to town. Sometimes the person sitting alone has been in the same classroom all year. They are simply accustomed to being overlooked.<\/p>\n
Brian\u2019s story is a gentle reminder that children can notice one another long before a teacher organizes a special activity. Your child does not need to become everybody\u2019s best friend to make someone feel seen.<\/p>\n
What kids notice:<\/strong> Brian\u2019s faint appearance in the illustrations makes his loneliness visible. As he connects with others, children can see how attention and kindness change his experience.<\/p>\nStory snapshot:<\/strong> Brian is frequently left out of games and invitations. When Justin joins the class, Brian welcomes him. Later, working together on a class project allows Brian\u2019s own gifts to emerge.<\/p>\nWhy this book helps:<\/strong> It shows welcoming as something wonderfully mutual. The child who reaches out may discover that they needed a friend, too.<\/p>\n<\/span>The Arabic Quilt: An Immigrant Story by Aya Khalil, illustrated by Anait Semirdzhyan<\/span><\/h2>\n![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.scrively.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/The-Arabic-Quilt-An-Immigrant-Story-by-Aya-Khalil-illustrated-by-Anait-Semirdzhyan.avif\")
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Food, language, clothing, and family traditions can become uncomfortable points of attention when a child wants desperately to blend in. Kanzi\u2019s story offers a tender reminder that a genuine welcome does not ask anyone to leave their home culture at the classroom door.<\/p>\n
It is a meaningful choice for discussing teasing, thoughtful questions, and the difference between celebrating someone\u2019s background and putting them on display.<\/p>\n
What kids notice:<\/strong> Kanzi\u2019s feelings shift when classmates respond to something important to her with teasing instead of interest. The quilt carries the comfort of family and home.<\/p>\nStory snapshot:<\/strong> After her family moves from Egypt to America, Kanzi experiences teasing at school. She writes an Arabic poem inspired by her grandmother\u2019s quilt, and her teacher helps the class create a paper quilt featuring their names in Arabic.<\/p>\nWhy this book helps:<\/strong> It encourages your child to treat unfamiliar traditions with respect. A classmate\u2019s language or lunch is not a problem to solve; it may be an invitation to learn.<\/p>\n<\/span>The Buddy Bench by Patty Brozo, illustrated by Mike Deas<\/span><\/h2>\n![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.scrively.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/The-Buddy-Bench-by-Patty-Brozo-illustrated-by-Mike-Deas.avif\")
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The playground can feel enormous when everybody else already has a partner. For children who want to help but miss quieter signs of loneliness, this cheerful story turns an abstract idea into something they can actually look for.<\/p>\n
It is also a useful reminder to adults: belonging grows when children help build the habits and spaces that make inclusion easier.<\/p>\n
What kids notice:<\/strong> Even a busy, exciting playground can be lonely for someone standing at its edge. The children\u2019s imaginative games make the contrast easy to recognize.<\/p>\nStory snapshot:<\/strong> After noticing that some classmates are left out at recess, Miss Mellon\u2019s students propose a buddy bench where children can signal that they would like someone to play with.<\/p>\nWhy this book helps:<\/strong> It gives your child a concrete question to carry to recess: Who is waiting for an invitation? A welcome may be as easy as asking whether somebody wants to join in.<\/p>\n<\/span>The Day You Begin by Jacqueline Woodson, illustrated by Rafael L\u00f3pez<\/span><\/h2>\n![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.scrively.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/dayyoubegin-258x300.jpg\")
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There are days when being different feels especially obvious. Maybe the other children spent summer vacation traveling while your child stayed home. Maybe nobody else speaks their language or brings the same food for lunch. This lyrical book honors the courage it takes to tell your own story anyway.<\/p>\n
For the child doing the welcoming, it offers an equally important lesson: listen before deciding what you have in common.<\/p>\n
What kids notice:<\/strong> A room full of people can still feel lonely when nobody seems to share your experiences. Yet sharing even one honest detail can open a connection.<\/p>\nStory snapshot:<\/strong> Woodson explores moments when children enter spaces where they feel unlike everyone else, gradually discovering the possibility of belonging through their experiences and stories.<\/p>\nWhy this book helps:<\/strong> It reminds your child that friendship does not require identical backgrounds. Sometimes a welcome begins when someone is interested enough to hear a different story.<\/p>\n<\/span>All Are Welcome by Alexandra Penfold, illustrated by Suzanne Kaufman<\/span><\/h2>\n![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.scrively.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/All-Are-Welcome-by-Alexandra-Penfold-300x300.webp\")
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Some books focus on a single brave invitation. This one imagines what happens when welcome becomes the atmosphere of an entire school. Children learn, play, and share their traditions in a community built around belonging.<\/p>\n
Read it when you want to move the conversation beyond being nice to one new student and toward the larger question of what kind of classroom your child can help create.<\/p>\n
What kids notice:<\/strong> The illustrations offer many different children and families to observe. Your child may see something familiar in one scene and discover something new in the next.<\/p>\nStory snapshot:<\/strong> A diverse group of students moves through an ordinary school day in which different backgrounds and traditions are welcomed and celebrated together.<\/p>\nWhy this book helps:<\/strong> It presents belonging as a shared practice. When children expect everybody to have a place, welcoming a newcomer becomes part of how the group behaves.<\/p>\n<\/span>The Sandwich Swap by Queen Rania Al Abdullah and Kelly DiPucchio, illustrated by Tricia Tusa<\/span><\/h2>\n![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.scrively.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/The-Sandwich-Swap-by-Queen-Rania-Al-Abdullah-1-243x300.webp\")
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Sometimes the challenge comes after the first hello. Your child may happily include a new friend and then stumble over an unfamiliar food, custom, or opinion.<\/p>\n
This lively story offers a safe way to talk about the careless judgments that can hurt even an established friendship.<\/p>\n
Its lunchtime conflict is approachable for young readers, and it creates room for an honest conversation about curiosity, apologies, and trying something new.<\/p>\n
What kids notice:<\/strong> Lily and Salma enjoy so much together, yet one difference becomes unexpectedly difficult when they judge each other\u2019s lunches.<\/p>\nStory snapshot:<\/strong> Best friends Lily and Salma eat different sandwiches: peanut butter for one, hummus for the other. Their comments lead to a food fight before they find a more generous way to appreciate their differences.<\/p>\nWhy this book helps:<\/strong> It gives your child language for a common mistake. When something feels unfamiliar, a respectful question is kinder than a quick judgment.<\/p>\n<\/span>Put Your Child in the Heart of the Story<\/span><\/h2>\nAfter reading, invite your child to imagine a new student arriving tomorrow. Where might that child sit?<\/p>\n
What could they do if the playground feels overwhelming? Would they want company right away, or might they need a little time?<\/p>\n
Now give your child a role in the story. Perhaps they remember the new student\u2019s name, offer to show them the library, or make space at the art table. The most valuable part is not choosing the perfect gesture. It is practicing how to notice another person\u2019s feelings and respond with care.<\/p>\n
A personalized Scrively story can bring that idea even closer by placing your child inside a welcoming adventure.<\/p>\n
Seeing themselves as someone capable of making room for a new friend can help turn an abstract virtue into a possibility they can imagine in their own school day.<\/p>\n
And if your child is the new kid, let the story move at their pace. They may need reassurance that they do not have to become outgoing overnight or give up familiar parts of themselves to belong.<\/p>\n
<\/span>One Small Welcome Can Change the Day<\/span><\/h2>\nYou cannot arrange every friendship your child will make. You can, however, help them recognize the little moments when another person is hoping to be noticed. Talk about saying hello, learning names, listening to unfamiliar stories, and leaving space for somebody who has not yet found their people.<\/p>\n
Most of all, remind your child that welcoming is not a performance. It is the steady, ordinary kindness of noticing that there is room for one more.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
There is a particular kind of bravery in walking into a room where everyone else already seems to belong. The other children know where to sit, which games to play, and whose jokes will make everybody laugh. The new child is still figuring out where to put a backpack. Your child may be the one … <\/p>\n
<\/p>\nStory snapshot:<\/strong> Jesse, Jason, and Emma each try to connect with a new classmate: Maria, Jin, and Fatimah. Soccer, stories, and art become bridges when words alone are difficult.<\/p>\n Why this book helps:<\/strong> Instead of expecting a perfect introduction, it encourages your child to notice what another person enjoys and begin there. Friendship can start with a ball, a picture, or a place beside you.<\/p>\n A name may be the first gift of welcome your child can offer. Learning to say it correctly shows someone that their identity is worth the effort. That simple idea becomes beautifully personal in this story of a girl trying to find her place.<\/p>\n It also opens a useful conversation about the difference between helping someone belong and expecting them to change in order to fit in.<\/p>\n What kids notice:<\/strong> Children often understand immediately how uncomfortable it would feel if classmates treated their own name as strange or inconvenient.<\/p>\n Story snapshot:<\/strong> After moving from Korea, Unhei worries that classmates will struggle with her name. She considers choosing an American name from a jar, but a new friendship helps her appreciate the name she already has.<\/p>\n Why this book helps:<\/strong> It gives your child an everyday way to practice respect: ask for a name, listen carefully, and try again when necessary. Welcoming means making space for someone as they are.<\/p>\n Now turn the experience around. What does a classroom feel like when you are the person trying to understand its unfamiliar sounds and routines? This companion book invites your child to imagine arriving somewhere without the comforting shortcuts of a shared language.<\/p>\n Reading both of O\u2019Brien\u2019s books together creates a particularly rich conversation: one helps children imagine offering a welcome; the other helps them understand why it matters.<\/p>\n What kids notice:<\/strong> The new students have interests, talents, and memories that existed long before they arrived. Being new does not mean having nothing to contribute.<\/p>\n Story snapshot:<\/strong> Maria comes from Guatemala, Jin from South Korea, and Fatimah from Somalia. Each encounters different challenges at an American school and gradually finds connection with classmates and teachers.<\/p>\n Why this book helps:<\/strong> It invites your child to replace assumptions with curiosity. A classmate who is quiet in English might have wonderful stories to tell in another language.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Not every child who needs a welcome has just moved to town. Sometimes the person sitting alone has been in the same classroom all year. They are simply accustomed to being overlooked.<\/p>\n Brian\u2019s story is a gentle reminder that children can notice one another long before a teacher organizes a special activity. Your child does not need to become everybody\u2019s best friend to make someone feel seen.<\/p>\n What kids notice:<\/strong> Brian\u2019s faint appearance in the illustrations makes his loneliness visible. As he connects with others, children can see how attention and kindness change his experience.<\/p>\n Story snapshot:<\/strong> Brian is frequently left out of games and invitations. When Justin joins the class, Brian welcomes him. Later, working together on a class project allows Brian\u2019s own gifts to emerge.<\/p>\n Why this book helps:<\/strong> It shows welcoming as something wonderfully mutual. The child who reaches out may discover that they needed a friend, too.<\/p>\n Food, language, clothing, and family traditions can become uncomfortable points of attention when a child wants desperately to blend in. Kanzi\u2019s story offers a tender reminder that a genuine welcome does not ask anyone to leave their home culture at the classroom door.<\/p>\n It is a meaningful choice for discussing teasing, thoughtful questions, and the difference between celebrating someone\u2019s background and putting them on display.<\/p>\n What kids notice:<\/strong> Kanzi\u2019s feelings shift when classmates respond to something important to her with teasing instead of interest. The quilt carries the comfort of family and home.<\/p>\n Story snapshot:<\/strong> After her family moves from Egypt to America, Kanzi experiences teasing at school. She writes an Arabic poem inspired by her grandmother\u2019s quilt, and her teacher helps the class create a paper quilt featuring their names in Arabic.<\/p>\n Why this book helps:<\/strong> It encourages your child to treat unfamiliar traditions with respect. A classmate\u2019s language or lunch is not a problem to solve; it may be an invitation to learn.<\/p>\n The playground can feel enormous when everybody else already has a partner. For children who want to help but miss quieter signs of loneliness, this cheerful story turns an abstract idea into something they can actually look for.<\/p>\n It is also a useful reminder to adults: belonging grows when children help build the habits and spaces that make inclusion easier.<\/p>\n What kids notice:<\/strong> Even a busy, exciting playground can be lonely for someone standing at its edge. The children\u2019s imaginative games make the contrast easy to recognize.<\/p>\n Story snapshot:<\/strong> After noticing that some classmates are left out at recess, Miss Mellon\u2019s students propose a buddy bench where children can signal that they would like someone to play with.<\/p>\n Why this book helps:<\/strong> It gives your child a concrete question to carry to recess: Who is waiting for an invitation? A welcome may be as easy as asking whether somebody wants to join in.<\/p>\n There are days when being different feels especially obvious. Maybe the other children spent summer vacation traveling while your child stayed home. Maybe nobody else speaks their language or brings the same food for lunch. This lyrical book honors the courage it takes to tell your own story anyway.<\/p>\n For the child doing the welcoming, it offers an equally important lesson: listen before deciding what you have in common.<\/p>\n What kids notice:<\/strong> A room full of people can still feel lonely when nobody seems to share your experiences. Yet sharing even one honest detail can open a connection.<\/p>\n Story snapshot:<\/strong> Woodson explores moments when children enter spaces where they feel unlike everyone else, gradually discovering the possibility of belonging through their experiences and stories.<\/p>\n Why this book helps:<\/strong> It reminds your child that friendship does not require identical backgrounds. Sometimes a welcome begins when someone is interested enough to hear a different story.<\/p>\n Some books focus on a single brave invitation. This one imagines what happens when welcome becomes the atmosphere of an entire school. Children learn, play, and share their traditions in a community built around belonging.<\/p>\n Read it when you want to move the conversation beyond being nice to one new student and toward the larger question of what kind of classroom your child can help create.<\/p>\n What kids notice:<\/strong> The illustrations offer many different children and families to observe. Your child may see something familiar in one scene and discover something new in the next.<\/p>\n Story snapshot:<\/strong> A diverse group of students moves through an ordinary school day in which different backgrounds and traditions are welcomed and celebrated together.<\/p>\n Why this book helps:<\/strong> It presents belonging as a shared practice. When children expect everybody to have a place, welcoming a newcomer becomes part of how the group behaves.<\/p>\n Sometimes the challenge comes after the first hello. Your child may happily include a new friend and then stumble over an unfamiliar food, custom, or opinion.<\/p>\n This lively story offers a safe way to talk about the careless judgments that can hurt even an established friendship.<\/p>\n Its lunchtime conflict is approachable for young readers, and it creates room for an honest conversation about curiosity, apologies, and trying something new.<\/p>\n What kids notice:<\/strong> Lily and Salma enjoy so much together, yet one difference becomes unexpectedly difficult when they judge each other\u2019s lunches.<\/p>\n Story snapshot:<\/strong> Best friends Lily and Salma eat different sandwiches: peanut butter for one, hummus for the other. Their comments lead to a food fight before they find a more generous way to appreciate their differences.<\/p>\n Why this book helps:<\/strong> It gives your child language for a common mistake. When something feels unfamiliar, a respectful question is kinder than a quick judgment.<\/p>\n After reading, invite your child to imagine a new student arriving tomorrow. Where might that child sit?<\/p>\n What could they do if the playground feels overwhelming? Would they want company right away, or might they need a little time?<\/p>\n Now give your child a role in the story. Perhaps they remember the new student\u2019s name, offer to show them the library, or make space at the art table. The most valuable part is not choosing the perfect gesture. It is practicing how to notice another person\u2019s feelings and respond with care.<\/p>\n A personalized Scrively story can bring that idea even closer by placing your child inside a welcoming adventure.<\/p>\n Seeing themselves as someone capable of making room for a new friend can help turn an abstract virtue into a possibility they can imagine in their own school day.<\/p>\n And if your child is the new kid, let the story move at their pace. They may need reassurance that they do not have to become outgoing overnight or give up familiar parts of themselves to belong.<\/p>\n You cannot arrange every friendship your child will make. You can, however, help them recognize the little moments when another person is hoping to be noticed. Talk about saying hello, learning names, listening to unfamiliar stories, and leaving space for somebody who has not yet found their people.<\/p>\n Most of all, remind your child that welcoming is not a performance. It is the steady, ordinary kindness of noticing that there is room for one more.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" There is a particular kind of bravery in walking into a room where everyone else already seems to belong. The other children know where to sit, which games to play, and whose jokes will make everybody laugh. The new child is still figuring out where to put a backpack. Your child may be the one … <\/p>\n<\/span>The Name Jar by Yangsook Choi<\/span><\/h2>\n
<\/p>\n<\/span>I\u2019m New Here by Anne Sibley O\u2019Brien<\/span><\/h2>\n
<\/p>\n<\/span>The Invisible Boy by Trudy Ludwig, illustrated by Patrice Barton<\/span><\/h2>\n
<\/p>\n<\/span>The Arabic Quilt: An Immigrant Story by Aya Khalil, illustrated by Anait Semirdzhyan<\/span><\/h2>\n
<\/p>\n<\/span>The Buddy Bench by Patty Brozo, illustrated by Mike Deas<\/span><\/h2>\n
<\/p>\n<\/span>The Day You Begin by Jacqueline Woodson, illustrated by Rafael L\u00f3pez<\/span><\/h2>\n
<\/p>\n<\/span>All Are Welcome by Alexandra Penfold, illustrated by Suzanne Kaufman<\/span><\/h2>\n
<\/p>\n<\/span>The Sandwich Swap by Queen Rania Al Abdullah and Kelly DiPucchio, illustrated by Tricia Tusa<\/span><\/h2>\n
<\/p>\n<\/span>Put Your Child in the Heart of the Story<\/span><\/h2>\n
<\/span>One Small Welcome Can Change the Day<\/span><\/h2>\n